| 08:14am, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226282
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Nope.
How many guys have you met so far ?
Are these introductions or at social gatherings/events ? |
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| 10:28am, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Joe_Singh
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Msg no: 226286
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I know quite a few people in your boat.
Especially guys who are looking for girls. |
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| 10:45am, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226289
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Is she fresh off the boat Joe ? |
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| 10:47am, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Joe_Singh
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Msg no: 226290
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Quite possibly. |
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| 07:14pm, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226305
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Fresh off the boat? lol.. yeah, thanks guys!!!
Hannibal, i've met around 6 so far. |
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| 07:47pm, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226306
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And none of them were close enough to tick most of your boxes ?
Over what time scale did you see these 6 guys ? |
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| 08:39pm, 17th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226307
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They only ticked a box or two here and there. I understand that i'll never tick all boxes, but I never realised it would be this difficult.
I have been looking for over a year now, which may not seem like a long time, but the process of getting to know somebody from scratch and then it coming to nothing is becoming quite tiring!
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| 08:54pm, 17th Jul 2007 |
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meenie
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Msg no: 226309
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Tell me about it, ive been there done it!
In my experience i always tried to meet the bloke sooner rather than later. There's no point in dragging the MSN/email/text/talking on phone thing out then finally meeting after a month and it coming to nothing!
Keep persevering T_m, you'll get there in the end! |
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| 09:35am, 18th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226310
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Had to do a double take there as I thought Meenie was telling Troubled to 'keep perving'.
Give it another 6 months to a year Troubled, I'm sure someone will come along to tick your boxes. |
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| 10:32am, 18th Jul 2007 |
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SATPAL
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Msg no: 226312
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how old are you TM? |
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| 10:59am, 18th Jul 2007 |
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bathing_ape
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Msg no: 226313
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Dont answer TM he just wants to tick your box. |
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| 11:31am, 18th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226314
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...which one though BApe ? |
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| 06:55pm, 18th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226327
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Cheers Meenie!
Hannibal, maybe i should cut down the number of boxes that need to be ticked.
Satpal - 27. |
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| 08:06pm, 18th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226328
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How many boxes do you have Troubled ? |
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| 11:15pm, 18th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226330
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Around 10+.
Nothing too uncommon - Excellent sense of humour, fun/lively to be around, adventurous, well cultured, easy going, family-oriented, honest, good mix of east/west traditions etc. His financial situation doesn't bother me in the slightest. I just want to meet somebody on the same level as me.
Unfortunately most guys have fallen at the first hurdle.
Do you think i'm being too picky? |
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| 12:25am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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PhatBoy
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Msg no: 226331
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TM - really? is that it?
do you mean hi/low-brow sarcasm - or shoving straws up his nose and clapping like a seal? |
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| 06:24am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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desiboy579
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Msg no: 226332
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^^^ is that it? do you mean, is that all? or do you mean what i mean, woah... that's loads... |
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| 07:33am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226333
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Reading that list Troubled, your not really asking for much compared to other lists I've come across from other women in need of a man.
I guess the problem you'll find is that most men are more of some things and less of the other in your list.
Trying to find that balanced man aint gonna be easy unless you stretch the field your looking in and take a bit longer to find him. Otherwise, you got sacrifice some things on the list and re-prioritse your list.
Whats the most boxes a man you have met has ticked ? |
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| 09:06am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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Joe_Singh
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Msg no: 226334
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I don't think you're asking for too much either.
I think you need to persevere a bit longer.
You'll get there. |
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| 11:13am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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FunKy_MunKy_StrZ
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Msg no: 226335
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honesty seems to be my biggest problem when looking for a man. |
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| 11:20am, 19th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226336
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From your icon, I can tell you have a way of testing it out too !!! |
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| 01:52pm, 19th Jul 2007 |
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PhatBoy
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Msg no: 226337
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Desiboy - the former... it's not really a lot. |
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| 02:25pm, 19th Jul 2007 |
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SATPAL
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Msg no: 226339
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yea but it depends on what people/you percieve.
to you, a good sense of humour can be like "oh this guy can tell stories" but to another it could be like...."quick! the waiters gone! lets do a runner!".
i dunno, good luck. |
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| 10:30pm, 19th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226345
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Hannibal, the last guy I met ticked all but one box.. I loved his personality, we were SO alike, we got along great, but the one and only reason I couldnt pursue it was because i wasn't the slightest bit attracted to him. You know how with some people you dont see that initial attraction when you first meet them, but it grows when you get to know them better, well with him i fell for his personality in a big way, but i know i couldnt get intimate with somebody that i dont find attractive in the slightest.
Shame really.. it took me ages to decide whether or not I wanted to pursue it. It wasn't an easy decision.
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| 07:28am, 20th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226346
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Sounds like you had best-friend syndrome (though it must have been harsh for him).
You sure you weren't being too fussy since your in this predicament now ?
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| 04:41pm, 21st Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226393
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I honestly don't think I am being too fussy. I couldn't go through with something if i'm constantly having doubts.
I dunno, do you think I am being too fussy? |
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| 08:07pm, 21st Jul 2007 |
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elle83
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Msg no: 226394
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Im feeling your pain on this one TM, my problem is that noone I have met has made me laugh. That is a very important thing to me.
I know its a cliche but you just have to keep looking and someone will some along |
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| 11:54pm, 21st Jul 2007 |
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neo
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Msg no: 226395
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how about age? what kind of age range are you looking for in a bloke? could you possibly widen it? and maybe widen other measurable factors.
you need to make sure you're not cutting out too many ppl available to you. |
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| 09:57pm, 23rd Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226426
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ohh i know what you mean...shortage of hot intelligent men with manners these days...saying that... i also have a date with a surgeon tomorrow... :S |
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| 11:10pm, 23rd Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226427
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Thats a bit OTT Amrita aint it....altering your looks for a guy ? |
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| 12:17am, 24th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226428
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erm no...for a start hes a trainee surgeon-but the medical type-not a cosmetic surgeon...really nice guy...sorry to kill your bad joke. |
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| 11:04am, 24th Jul 2007 |
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Red_Chillies
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Msg no: 226447
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When you want something soo badly, you can sometimes lose the importance of why you're looking for it.
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| 01:55pm, 24th Jul 2007 |
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PhatBoy
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Msg no: 226454
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i'd just like to say - finding one of you womenfolk aint so easy either. |
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| 04:29pm, 24th Jul 2007 |
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desiboy579
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Msg no: 226457
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^^ Hands together to that. |
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| 02:05pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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PrincessParadox
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Msg no: 226489
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Anyone else not impressed by trainee surgeons? I can't say I'm impressed by any trainee doctor right now.
*disillusioned* |
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| 02:07pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226490
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was a crap date...hes just too nice...i cant sand guys who hand over their hearts just like that...gives me an incentive to walk all over it...easy come easy go |
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| 02:10pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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PrincessParadox
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Msg no: 226491
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Sounds better than the trainee surgeon I was seeing. I knew he was a cock but didn't let it bother me until he hurt me. Would appreciate someone a bit nicer. Let's swap.
What kind of surgeon is he? |
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| 02:18pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226498
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well this guy is toooo nice for my liking...i mean i dont want a complete dickhead but i dont want someone who will take my bullshit when im having a bad day...i need some fire...and some major chemistry and i was getting none of that! (although one thing i really liked about him is that he had realllly nice hands lol- but i wasnt too keen on the fact that he wore trainers-and not even nice ones on our date)...hes really decent which is great...type of guy i could take home to mum but he behaved like a 16 year old with a crush...yuck...i like older more dominant kinda men-but at the same time theyve got to be respectful and faithful...
hes a medical surgeon...not cosmetic...i see it as merely poking around in someones gut...he goes on a bit and i just lose interest...i would have been alot more fascinated and keen if he would have at least been humorous by pretending to dissect his food or something |
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| 04:23pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226506
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I have a date tomorrow, i'm quite excited as this guy seems to have many of the qualities i'm looking for.
Maybe I shouldnt get my hopes up just yet though.
Wish me luck.
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| 04:25pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226507
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good luck! hope it goes well for you!
(and i hope he has nice shoes....only if that matters to you of course.... i find it to be rather important personally...each to their own)! |
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| 04:27pm, 26th Jul 2007 |
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Hannibal
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Msg no: 226508
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Good Luck Troubled *fingers crossed* |
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| 11:06am, 28th Jul 2007 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 226523
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He turned out to be alot different to what I thought he would be like. He hardly cracked a smile the entire time.
Nice guy but I don't think we liked each othe after meeting. He seemed so different on the phone.
Ah well, the search continues. |
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| 12:57pm, 28th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226524
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he didnt smile?! was he not happy to see you? how did you break the ice...? if any? |
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| 01:24pm, 28th Jul 2007 |
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kitten
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Msg no: 226525
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amrita1 - no one can be toooo nice - you have to remember that you only saw him for a few hours so it's not like he will totally be himself anyway.
I used to think that about my husband when we were seeing each other - he was just a bit too nice... but 3 years of marriage soon changes that! LOL. |
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| 02:19pm, 28th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226526
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kitten- seriously i'd been talking to this guy for a while before we'd gone on our actual date and even when i insult him to get a rise out of him he happily takes it...really boring! |
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| 05:33pm, 29th Jul 2007 |
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SDJ
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Msg no: 226530
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I would have introduced you to the back of my hand. |
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| 08:17pm, 29th Jul 2007 |
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kitten
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Msg no: 226531
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amtrita - trust me he's just being polite for the time being  |
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| 09:21pm, 30th Jul 2007 |
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amrita1
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Msg no: 226545
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SDJ- i would have wrestled you if you did that!
kitten- yeah i know but i couldnt tolerate the fact that he was so tolerant...! thought id test his patience...but hes just so smiley and urgh...anyhow...went on another date today with a much funnier and more charming chap...hes got that foppiness hugh grant has about him...*swoon* and i had a really good time today :) |
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| 10:09pm, 30th Jul 2007 |
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SDJ
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Msg no: 226546
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I doubt you would have got up. |
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| 06:29pm, 13th Aug 2007 |
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amyss
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Msg no: 226692
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hey, log onto www.bhachola.com, its a new matrimonial/dating site for indians. Its gonna be a big hit! It totally free too! |
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| 12:22pm, 17th Aug 2007 |
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Bhaju81
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Msg no: 226710
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Searching for a potential wife is just as much of a mission...more or less same issues though ! |
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| 01:40pm, 12th Apr 2008 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 229579
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15+ meetings later and i'm STILL looking!
What a mission!!!
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| 03:12pm, 12th Apr 2008 |
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inders
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Msg no: 229580
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you're fussy, get them all in a big circle and ippy dippy doo for it. |
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| 06:43pm, 12th Apr 2008 |
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elimin8
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Msg no: 229581
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"you'll find somone soon enough"
Give it another 6 months?
Don't be time bound. |
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| 07:06pm, 12th Apr 2008 |
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Troubled_mind
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Msg no: 229582
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Eliiiii... dont say it! I hear it often enough and its so annoying.
Inders, I am not fussy.. honest! I keep getting introduced to guys with zero personality. Whats a girl to do?
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| 05:41pm, 13th Apr 2008 |
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Apni
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Msg no: 229584
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you arent going to find someone brilliant.. and Just for you..in one meeting.. it takes time to get to know someone..and what they are like....
On a side note.. i like the ippy dippy doo idea.. .. |
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| 10:25pm, 13th Apr 2008 |
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elimin8
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Msg no: 229585
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Like I said, don't pressure yourself into it... and don't think you are timebound... |
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| 09:10am, 15th Apr 2008 |
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Red_Chillies
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Msg no: 229592
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What are you actually looking for?
What kind of questions are you asking?
and what kind of setting are you meeting them in? (house/cafe?) |
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| 10:46am, 15th Apr 2008 |
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spoon
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Msg no: 229594
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maybe she's ugly as fuck?
just a thought. |
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| 11:54pm, 25th Apr 2008 |
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SATPAL
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Msg no: 229642
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i think she's probably asking straight away:
so how much money do you have?
what car do you drive?
what does your family do?
do you like watching golf?
do you think that all games consoles are just a waste of time?
i agree with spoon. |
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| 06:15pm, 30th Apr 2008 |
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princess_of_zamunda
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Msg no: 229661
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t-m I am totally in the same boat as you!
I have met 4 guys so far in the last year and it has all came to nothing. I am slightly worn out by the whole process already.
But I will persevere - if only to keep my mum quiet! |
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| 09:26pm, 30th Apr 2008 |
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burnt_roti
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Msg no: 229662
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LOL
i love this thread!
although i'm not looking for a husband...i can agree that it is difficult to find a man who i'd want to be in a serious relationship with.
i agree with amrita in that a guy who is toooo nice - is a major turn off. and also, a guy who initiates too much contact too soon. like i just met this one guy over the weekend and we exchanged numbers. within 24 hours, he had called me once and texted me 4 times!
the way i see it - is its hard to meet quality people period. from when i was a kid to now, i'd say i have about 5 people in my life who are my closest friends...5! and we don't discriminate with who our friends can or can't be. like we don't look at religion, caste, education, job etc...and if you're suppose to date/marry someone who you consider to be your bes friend...it might take a while.
but just put yourself out there and don't lose hope! the more people you meet the closer you are to meeting the one guy you actually like :) |
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| 08:47am, 1st May 2008 |
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raz_q
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Msg no: 229664
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searching for a wife is infinitely more frustrating :D |
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| 07:52pm, 1st May 2008 |
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Ellusive
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Msg no: 229670
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interesting indeedy.
FAO burnt roti..sounds like you are totally confused. If a guy tries to hard and is easily accessible then thats a turn off yet if he plays 'the game' and is not accessible enough then you would be complaining about him being a twat. All i can say is that im speechless. Im a woman myself and I understand challenge is necessary but seriously re-evaluation is necessary.
and raz q...bald heads can attract quality im sure ;) |
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| 07:52pm, 1st May 2008 |
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Ellusive
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Msg no: 229671
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re evaluation is necessary for you =(
*sigh* |
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| 10:04am, 2nd May 2008 |
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JOe_Singh
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Msg no: 229672
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How long have you been looking before you started this thread?? |
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| 10:41am, 2nd May 2008 |
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MannyGill84
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Msg no: 229673
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Searching for a guy is like searching for a job! |
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| 11:12am, 2nd May 2008 |
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Joe_Singh
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Msg no: 229674
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I think getting a job is easier no? |
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| 12:50pm, 2nd May 2008 |
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MannyGill84
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Msg no: 229675
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nope |
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| 04:58pm, 2nd May 2008 |
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Temptation
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Msg no: 229676
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^what about guys who throw themselves at your feet but get told to fuck off in a nice way? He needs slaps. I'll make him see you're not worth the trouble. |
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| 07:30pm, 2nd May 2008 |
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Ellusive
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Msg no: 229677
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^^^^^
:O !
flashback from the past..
ur still single???! |
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| 09:27pm, 2nd May 2008 |
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Temptation
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Msg no: 229678
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I'm married now |
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| 11:06pm, 2nd May 2008 |
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Ms_XtReMe
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Msg no: 229679
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I'm disappointed in you ladies.
We don't search for husbands - husbands search for US. ;) |
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| 08:44am, 3rd May 2008 |
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reelist
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Msg no: 229680
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this whole obsession with getting married is beyond me. you're so desperate to get married you're missing the bigger picture.
almost every person i've ever really cared about, i didn't really like that much in the beginning. how much can you really tell from one or two dates?
why dont people try and search for happiness? because a 1/8 carat engagement ring wont solve all your woes. |
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| 01:04pm, 3rd May 2008 |
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Manrajss
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Msg no: 229681
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searching for a wife is equally frustrating....not that i am actively searching, but am keeping an eye out.
maybe its just i've set my standards too high |
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| 02:27pm, 3rd May 2008 |
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HELLGHAST
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Msg no: 229682
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i find it so repulsive when women go on about their frantic hunt for a husband.
its almost as bad as the process itself. i cant be the only guy who finds these women scary, can i? |
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| 02:54pm, 3rd May 2008 |
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mr_xxxtreme
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Msg no: 229683
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"i cant be the only guy who finds these women scary, can i?"
no.
ive met/know a few girls like this - they seem so objective oriented, i wonder if theyve even ever gone out with anyone to maybe get a more realistic idea of what they might want. dont get me wrong, theyre not all scary, but i think if youve been lookin for quite a few years and still not found what you want, then maybe its time to readjust your approach.
more stone cold approaches like the man budgens advises for instance.
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| 03:12pm, 4th May 2008 |
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burnt_roti
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Msg no: 229690
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FAO Ellusive -
meh. that's just me. i don't like clingy people in general - so if a guy comes across as super clingy right from the very get go...that spells trouble in my books! not to say i enjoy playing dating games, but i hate it when guys contact me mulitple times after an initial date. its like give me some time and space to digest things and then we'll talk. i'd still go out with them again...but if that continued i would phase 'em out 
also...to add to this thread...
the indian mentality is that once girls reach a certain age...and they're still not married...there's gotta be something wrong with them. i think maybe thats why a lot (not all) indian women are on more of a search then guys. because with guys you can be 30+ and still not married and its not a huge deal.
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| 08:02pm, 4th May 2008 |
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lal_chand_holmfirth
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Msg no: 229702
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I'm 34 and my family no longer think its a big deal i am not married. I no longer live in my hometown, but when i go back to visit and bump into family friends, i get a load of shit as i am not married.
The worst thing is that guys i went to school with, who got married in their twenties, now spread rumours that i am gay, which really pisses me off.
I'm not the best looking guy in the world, and had a few 'riste', but was rejected, so i thought, may as well stick on my own, but these people cannot realise that a guy may want to stay on his own. |
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| 07:36am, 5th May 2008 |
Searching for a husband is SO frustrating!! |
Punjabi_Superman
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Msg no: 229703
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^word... a lot of mates who married in their 20's too but I am happy for them and they don't rub it in my face. At one point I felt I was not keeping up with the pace for my age but I realised that there is no set age for this... my grand father married in his late 30's and my father married in his late 20's. Screw the "norm" I say. There is no norm it's just a mentality as mentioned above. These things happen when you least expect them too anyway. |
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| 07:35pm, 26th May 2008 |
Searching for a husband is SO frustrating!! |
Pooja
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Msg no: 229922
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Have you tried matrimonial websites?
I know it might be a bit cliched and some people think its a sad way of meeting people but the way I see it, its just another channel for meeting the potential right candidate.
I found my husband on a matrimonial website and we've been married now for about 9 months. Its the happiest I thought I would ever be! |
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