| 11:24am, 25th Nov 2007 |
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kaalia_81
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876158
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black guys with asian girls (especially Indian/Gujarati) has been a common and growing trend for quite some time!
most of these girls are pretty attractive also to make asian guys feel WTF! |
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| 11:28am, 25th Nov 2007 |
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kaalia_81
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876159
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^ oh and many parents have just had to get accustomed to it and reluctantly accept it.
My best mate's sister is going out with Black guy in a long term relationship and the family went thru hell trying to accept it and then down the road have accepted it and just dealing with it. Another girl in their family has just married a black guy, this all in one family and both girls are lovely lookers!
we live in a mixed society and all of us have got to accept that it can happen to your sister, daughter...
if u dont like it then move on out to deepest India or Pakistan or wherever u from. |
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| 12:03pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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pimp
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876162
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lol.
check oot
freaks of cock
that might answer a question or 2
can u beliebe that much stuff comes out
proper drenched
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| 12:41pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876163
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yep i think in about 20 years. which will be the next generation.
alot of asians will be the product of mixed race realtionships. and theyll lose their identity. its a slippery slope.
personaly i dont agree with it. but its up to everyone to make their choices. i wouldnt marry outside my race. |
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| 02:33pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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HELLGHAST
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876169
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i get what ur saying, perry. these girls of today have lost all respect for their roots and have no identity what their identity is meant to be. makes you feel sorry for their parents who made so many sacrifices in life just to have their daughters end up in relationships with ugly black guys. disgraceful, eh? |
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| 05:01pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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jake_the_muss
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876171
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Come on lads, we have all dated girls outside our own religion/colour/culture. So dont expect girls not to too.
the only difference is in todays society, girls seem to have more to lose than lads. |
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| 05:02pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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reelist
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876172
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who says whats allowed or not?
we live in the most multi-racial country in the world. and your identity is what you make of it, it isn't naturally the same as everyone elses. you might think that to have children with a girl of the same race as you will maintain that childs identity, others don't. identity is a dynamic thing - you're not confused about your identity now are you? being that your parents lived in another country - are you now suffering an identity crisis? no. and neither will the children of mixed race relationships.
i love these "asian girls these days" type threads. all these kala's are taking our apne girls innit.
:) |
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| 05:30pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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Chyld
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876173
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my question is what do these girls see in the black man. i mean i dont mean any offence . but he looked quite older then her. and i just dont know how he managaed to get someone as beautiful as her. as he was quite ugly looking.
Try being a faggot for a while and find out.
Im kidding. That could be her ideal man and someone she truly loves/likes. Theres a lot more to a person than physical aspects. I know an asian girl who only dates black guys. Good for her and more power to her. Everyone has the right to choose who ever they want to be with. |
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| 05:42pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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buff_gal_4_lyf
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876175
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each 2 der own. if da man is fit he fit lolz |
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| 05:44pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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buff_gal_4_lyf
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876176
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perry u like nandos peri peri sauce? lolz |
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| 07:17pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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jake_the_muss
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876178
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My moto is like this:
Relationships is like food.
Go out and feel free to try all the exoctic dishes the world has to offer, but you'll soon find out that nothing is better than home cooked food! |
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| 09:39pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876181
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reelist, in your particular community it may be acceptable to date/marry outside race or religion. but in mine it is compleltley unacceptable.
and i only go on how my community is. not any other community. thats why is said each to their own.
i personaly feel that you will lose your identity. for instance if someone married out of their race in my community they would be disowned. and know one will want to have anything to do with them.
becuase they have married an outsider. its like shameful thing to do.
i personaly agree with it. i see people who marry out of their religion as stray dogs. not this or the other. something inbetween. and i woild look down on these people. its just my views dont mean to offend anyone.
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| 10:01pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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reelist
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876182
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ive heard alot about mixed race relationships in the asian community on the rise.
there you specified what is one big asian community, in the first line of your first post.
and who is to say that you're community (which is what, btw?) is the same as these asians you speak of?
i personaly agree with it. i see people who marry out of their religion as stray dogs. not this or the other. something inbetween. and i woild look down on these people. its just my views dont mean to offend anyone.
so you don't mean to offend the stray dogs and people you look down on? it seems to me like thats your only intention.
jog on, troll. and try and get laid some time eh? it might take away some of that pent up tension of yours. |
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| 10:26pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876183
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reellist take it easy.
you either agree with mixed race/religion marriages or not? which is it? stop beating around the bush.
this is the way i see it and im sure theres plent of people that see it that way.
the jist of my post is that i dont believe in mixed marraiges. so far your talking about. letting out sexual frustration.
what is your arguement for mixed marriages? do you agree with them?
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| 11:27pm, 25th Nov 2007 |
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reelist
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876184
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mixed relationships and marriages are up to the two people involved. its not really any of your (or my) business.
let me ask you, why does it bother YOU so much? |
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| 10:37am, 26th Nov 2007 |
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desiboy579
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876187
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"my question is what do these girls see in the black man."
Obviously, more than they see in you.
So, my guessing is, you got rejected a couple times & now all asian girls are slags, hoe's, non self respecting bitches.
or
that your life is so boring, tedeous etc, that you have to delve into the lives of others to find some meaning. |
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| 01:32pm, 26th Nov 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876191
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reelist, first of all. it doesnt bother me as much as when it happenes in other religions/communities.
but as an asian we are all grouped together so it does reflect on asians in a way.
it doesn affect me alot. the reason for the topic. was i saw a really attractive asian girl with a black geezer. and i dont mean any offence but it looked like the black guy just walked out of a dustbin.
and ive seen quite a few cases of the same thing.
i didnt make this thread to voice me not liking intteracial relationships. but if somone asked me what i thought of these relationships i would say that i think its not right.
however everyone has the freedom to do what they want and i have an opinion that i wanna air. and my opinion is that it is wrong.
at the end of the day. im not threatened by seeing these relationships.
desiboy, your a typical example of person which comes from a family where there are probably alot of interracial relationships/marriages. and now you are hurt by my posts as i said that these relationships disgust me.
so now you are trying to justify it by saing. 'move with the times' ect. 'you got rejected'
maybe your the one who needs to llok at yourself and see why black man is taking your women.
your probably lacking somewhere. i guess. maybe because of should i say small stature.
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| 02:19pm, 26th Nov 2007 |
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sixth
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876193
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how and what difference does it make Perry if it does reflect on asians as a whole? do you think everyone will think all asian girls are going out with people of different races. Does it make you feel inferior somehow?
maybe the asian guys she met weren't the type of person she was interested in, maybe they were all narrow minded bigots.
Are you more bothered by the fact that she was stunning (in your eyes) and dating a black guy? Would you have thought differently and even bothered to make a thread if you didn't find her attractive? |
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| 03:02pm, 26th Nov 2007 |
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desiboy579
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876195
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Perry.
"desiboy, your a typical example of person which comes from a family where there are probably alot of interracial relationships/marriages."
Nope. My family or my past generations has never been in an interraccial relationship. Me & my siblings are all on the lookout for spouses of the same religion & ethnicity. However, saying that, I am open to an inter-religious marriage. That's 'cos i'm OPEN minded.
"and now you are hurt by my posts as i said that these relationships disgust me."
2. If you think that an anonymous person that I don't know or give a shit about can make comments to hurt me, all I can say is that you think too much of yourself. It's not your comments that get my goat, its the fact that people like you still have the need to pass judgement on other people's lives.
"maybe your the one who needs to llok at yourself and see why black man is taking your women.
your probably lacking somewhere. i guess. maybe because of should i say small stature."
Again, nope. I think it is you that needs to ask yourself this question. Hey, you've already asked barfi. |
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| 03:03pm, 26th Nov 2007 |
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StrangelyPsychedelic
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876196
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I hope perry1 doesn't do what Christopher Walken does to Dennis Hopper in True Romance...
Clifford Worley: So you see, way back then, uh, Sicilians were like, uh, wops from Northern Italy. Ah, they all had blonde hair and blue eyes, but, uh, well, then the Moors moved in there, and uh, well, they changed the whole country. They did so much fuckin' with Sicilian women, huh? That they changed the whole bloodline forever. That's why blonde hair and blue eyes became black hair and dark skin. You know, it's absolutely amazing to me to think that to this day, hundreds of years later, that, uh, that Sicilians still carry that n****r gene. Now this...
[Coccotti busts out laughing]
Clifford Worley: No, I'm, no, I'm quoting... history. It's written. It's a fact, it's written.
Coccotti: [Laughing] I love this guy.
Clifford Worley: Your ancestors are n****rs. Uh-huh.
[Starts laughing, too]
Clifford Worley: Hey. Yeah. And, and your great-great-great-great grandmother fucked a n****r, ho, ho, yeah, and she had a half-n****r kid... now, if that's a fact, tell me, am I lying? 'Cause you, you're part eggplant.
[All laugh] |
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| 10:38pm, 11th Dec 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876645
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Nope. My family or my past generations has never been in an interraccial relationship. Me & my siblings are all on the lookout for spouses of the same religion & ethnicity. However, saying that, I am open to an inter-religious marriage. That's 'cos i'm OPEN minded.
err not quite.
just because i dont want to get into a inter-religious marriage doesnt mean im 'closed minded'
thats just my personal choice. |
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| 10:41pm, 11th Dec 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876646
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it seems to me that people are quick to say 'your narror minded' or your 'racist'
when infact they probably would rather their kids get married to people of the sam religion/race.
i generaly think that its usually women who dont care what race/religion/ a guy comes from. they think everyone should be able to marry who they want regardless of religion/caste.
i personaly wouldnt like to get involved with people who have these views. as it makes me sick!
is this true? |
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| 03:09pm, 14th Dec 2007 |
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bhatri_kuri
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876699
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stopping anyone from marrying outside their race is taking away thier basic rights to have feelings.
you can have those, frankly, narrow opinions but there is no place for them in this country. in such a mixed nation people will marry outside their faith, if you disagree enough to hurt someone because of it you should bugger off to a country that condones that kind of behaviour.
we were all evolved from one race anyway, we created these barriers ourselves. |
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| 05:43pm, 14th Dec 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876701
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you lost me when you siad. everyone has rights?
since when did women get rights?
womens only right should be is which cleaning products they use.
womens shouldnt have any rights.
men should be allowed 12 wifes. and women can only have one husband.
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| 09:23pm, 14th Dec 2007 |
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Anna
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876707
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No biggie. Im with a black guy myself - and theres no particular reason! Just how you fall for anyone of any other colour its the same with blacks
re your point about not being allowed - what asian person is technically "allowed" to have a relationship with anyone?!
Times-a-changing - people with others of different races is no big drama.
To be honest - being with guys who are not asian - one of the best choices i made - no drama, posessive qualities, being in a relationship and having a great time, as well as having your own space - something i never got with an asian guy!
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| 12:18pm, 15th Dec 2007 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876713
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^ just make sure your other half doesnt meet me in a dark alley. |
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| 12:55pm, 16th Dec 2007 |
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buff_gal_4_lyf
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876736
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soon da hole world gna be brown |
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| 11:35am, 21st Dec 2007 |
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raz_q
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 876887
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"To be honest - being with guys who are not asian - one of the best choices i made - no drama, posessive qualities, being in a relationship and having a great time, as well as having your own space - something i never got with an asian guy!"
i feel the same way about desi girls..
lmao@i cant get with you cos we're not the same caste/religion/creed etc but ill happily get it together with nigel/keyshaun/wong lee over there :D |
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| 09:15pm, 6th Jan 2008 |
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anna
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877129
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no idea why majority of asian guys have this posessive - need to know everything you do-eat-wear-ever quality about them!
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| 10:05pm, 6th Jan 2008 |
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Bhaju81
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877130
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These threads tend to turn into asian guy bashing threads.
You cant generalise about all asian guys, just the same that every chris/tom or tyrone is not likely to be your saviour and renew your faith in men.
I wouldnt go out seriously with a girl of a majorly different background, it doesnt stop me being friends with them. Its not racism but just having knowledge and respect for my culture and wishing to carry those things on. |
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| 10:26pm, 6th Jan 2008 |
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tera_abba
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877131
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folk in london and generally the Uk are freaks. You lot try way too hard to be different. Relax and be yourself. |
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| 10:36am, 10th Jan 2008 |
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perry1
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877212
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''I wouldnt go out seriously with a girl of a majorly different background''
lol like you have a chocie.
seriously most males would go with anyone .
like your going to refuse some ass because she's white or somthing.
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| 03:22pm, 16th Jan 2008 |
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Smooth_stallion
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877364
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I've got an interresting question about mixed race marriges within the asian community.
How many relationships ave there been which have lasted? not as in a figure but do you know of any old folk or middle aged even who are married to a black/white person?
I've got nothing against them, if anything my bias is for them, but i've just not been able to see long term futures in them. i've got a mate or two who've married white girls when they've been younger and now are divorced, single with a kid who lives with his mum. K is a top lad nothing wrong with him at all even if he does look a bit funny (lol), his dad seems happy but he's only in his mid 40's and stoill clubbing like he's 18 lol.
TBH i don't know many iner race married couples, only 1 is my uncle and he married a retarded woman from school lol.
he seems to be really unhappy but can't do nothing about it.
So does anyone know of any long lasting inter race marriges? |
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| 07:26pm, 9th Feb 2008 |
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doc_bollywood
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877651
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Fair enough if certain Asian girls want to date Black guys, it's probably because they more than likely encounter the same probs in relationships with Asian guys that I tend to with Asian girls i.e lack of open-mindedness, overbearing traditionalism/religiousness and so on - and this leads them to look elsewhere. Like I said I have the same problem, I'm British born Pakistani but agnostic in terms of religion which doesn't really go down too well with most Asians esp. fellow Pakistani/Muslim girls so I tend to have to look elsewhere. |
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| 04:52pm, 11th Feb 2008 |
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nubbin
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877665
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You will be producing kids (through no fault of their own) who will have an identity crisis, no heritage or sense of belonging.
Speak for yourself. You might well produce little more than crowd following sheep, but I'll personally be giving birth to free thinking, intelligent individuals who can create their OWN identity, not leech off of the achievements of their forefathers or like-skinned buddies.
Plenty of people out there have an identity crisis even if their parents are the same race. |
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| 05:05pm, 11th Feb 2008 |
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raz_q
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877667
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mixed race dating probably starts out as escapist lust and either turns into love or falls apart at the seems, when the fantasy is over..
but then again, all relationships start out as lust.. but the escapist element avoiding none of the usual asian bullsh!t is probably the selling pt |
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| 12:48am, 17th Feb 2008 |
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Red_Indian
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877702
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What is this sense of ownership people keep typing, 'our women', 'give our women to black people'?
There are some serious generalisations in this thread. It's sad to think being second generation kids and living in a diverse society, people still find the need to 'stick to their own' in fear of losing their roots. Your roots are not the people you hang out with, they're part of you. Why is it believed so inevitably that roots, identity and culture will be lost in an inter-racial relationship? Surely there'd be a modern mix of two cultures. I've found that some people my age (2nd generation) are just as disconnected from their 'roots' as a mixed race kid might be. Roots and identity are a crisis faced by people of all races. Who is to say a mixed raced person is more likely, where are the facts? Is it so bad to be different? Assumptions, assumptions...
And what actual statistics exists of inter-racial marriage success? Note: Asian marriages are rising in divorce rates.
I like this comment: 'To be honest - being with guys who are not asian - one of the best choices i made - no drama, possessive qualities, being in a relationship and having a great time, as well as having your own space'. As generalised as this might be too, I have found it to be true too.
We all have the right to feel how we like, but what kind of image are you projecting of the community you so proudly front?
Ah Razqueue, I once saw this documentary about this lust issue, this lust feeling usually fades after two years. Let's look at some more stats to see how many relationships fail or struggle after two years. It's quite annoying how lust and love is so often confused. |
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| 12:48am, 17th Feb 2008 |
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Red_Indian
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877703
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:s the spaces and paragraphing disappeared. |
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| 07:36am, 17th Feb 2008 |
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Ms_XtReMe
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877707
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have low morals, probably are from rubbish families, not decent and have no respect for themselves.
Interesting that - I feel the same way about Pakistani's. =)
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| 10:06pm, 18th Feb 2008 |
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Red_Indian
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877722
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Oh yes, do watch out. I'm here to ruin the face of all Asians. |
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| 11:06pm, 18th Feb 2008 |
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Ms_XtReMe
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877723
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^ you going to sit on their faces?
Black men are like SO much betta than asian pansy boys.
Fix up boys - or else all you'll have left are the village girls of northern Pakistan left to pick from.
=) |
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| 10:37pm, 20th Feb 2008 |
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Red_Indian
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877739
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Oh dear, it's one of those, Extremity. |
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| 04:42pm, 21st Feb 2008 |
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Anna
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877741
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How is this thread still alive?!
People mix their relationships these days - big deal. What is to one person what another chooses to do with their life? |
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| 12:47pm, 23rd Feb 2008 |
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Anna
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877769
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And evidently we have RepublicanGuard - the mature adult. |
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| 07:23pm, 9th Mar 2008 |
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wizard23
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877831
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well i saw one of these on a a bus. the girl in question was sikh ans she was with a black chap.
when she found out that me and my firends were Sikh also. she started hiding her Kara under her coat
seems like she was the one ashamed to be with a blackie herself. not me. i couldnt care less. |
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| 04:49pm, 6th Apr 2008 |
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lady_in_black
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877959
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What a stupid thread. They happen get over it. |
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| 06:11pm, 15th Apr 2008 |
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optimus_wank
[Profile - Diary] Msg no: 877997
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perry is right all of u would be slapping your daughters and sisters etc if she went out with a black guy...EWWWWW |
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