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02:34am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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So how important is sex to women when they're in serious relationships?




02:34am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575499

It's very important. Once my husband and I were married, he stopped showing me the kind of affection he did when we were dating. When we dated, we made love at least once a day, and not just quickie sex either. And suddenly, I was lucky if he kissed me once a week.


02:35am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575501

but my friend before sex comes communication and if you don't have that in a relationship, it's doomed. If my husband even remotely felt that I wasn't interested, he would let me know rather than carry around feelings of resentment or inadequacy. We have a very rich sex life, and believe it or not, we were both virgins when we recited our nuptials.


02:36am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

uk_pimp

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Msg no: 575502

;)


02:36am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575503

sex isn't that important, after all, what's sex going to do for a couple if they're not compatible on other, more important, levels? my boyfriend and I experiment and have sex very often now, but once we're married, sex will definitely take a backseat to more important issues.


02:36am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Punjabi_don

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Msg no: 575504


I'm Innocent, a Sidha Sudha n a Birgin...


02:37am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575505

No way Sandman, sex is just as important as those "more important" issues you're referring to. Without a good sex life, how can you ensure that your husband is thoroughly satisfied? It's about more than cooking him a good meal and keeping a proper house.


02:37am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Bharat

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Msg no: 575506

there is a small kid in my neighborhood, his name is sandesh, I can see what lies in his future ;)


02:37am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575507

look sandeep if my boyfriend wants sex, I'll give it to him. It's not that big of a deal. It's important yes, but I think that sex usually dies down once a couple gets married. That's just the way it works.


02:38am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

CLUBBA

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Msg no: 575510

WHY DO GUYS WANTS A VIRGIN AS THEIR WIFE BUT GO ROUND SHAGGIN EVERY HOLE!

TUT TUT

GUYS ARE PATHETIC!


02:39am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575513

okay Sandman but is there any sexual activity that you dislike, but that your man loves?

I mean my ex-husband would beg me to let him release himself in my mouth, and I tried it once and threw up all over him, and that was the last time he ever asked me to do that. Come to think of it, he never asked me for any sexual favors after that.


02:39am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575515

i personally hate oral sex, I think it's the grossest thing in the world. I gag just at the thought of having a penis in my mouth. But my boyfriend is cool with it and says that it's not important.


02:40am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575518

Does he "go down" on you? (referring to Sandman)


02:40am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575520

yeah, all the time.


02:41am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575522

And you believe that he doesn't care that you don't go down on him?


02:41am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575523

Of course, why wouldn't I?


02:41am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575524

Maybe because 95% of men enjoy receiving oral sex more so than having sex. And chances are that if you won't furnish his penis with your mouth, then he'll find someone who will. He might stay with you, but he'll be getting his blowjobs elsewhere


02:42am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575525

look sandeep, first of all, you don't know what all men like. second, I would believe what my boyfriend says way before I would give your two cents a second thought.


02:43am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575526

Okay, then just for fun's sake, when you get home tonight, go down on him if only to see his reaction. He'll probably ejaculate the second your lips touch the head.

*giggles*


02:43am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Blade

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Msg no: 575528

LMAO!!!!!!!

i don't think anyone's realised that something is really wrong here!!


02:44am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

CLUBBA

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Msg no: 575530

IM SCARED NOW.

WONDER WHERE THEY ARE CUTTING AND PASTING FROM?


02:44am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575531

ok does anyone else want to address the question?

i can say that my husband had an obsession with anal sex at one point, and although I was apprehensive, I let him do it. Hey, I'll try anything once. Needless to say, I absolutely abhorred it -- but we tried it twice. I wanted to make sure that I hated it.


02:44am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Manni_Ji

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Msg no: 575533

ok......

this is abit personal innit!!!!!


i don't believe in sex b4 marriage...

but my mates who have been in relationships...obviously have made love to their boyfirends...only to find things ghave changed completely...

then their left with the feeling like shit!!!

and used...

what can i say...


02:45am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

me_myself_I

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Msg no: 575534

disgusting...


02:45am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

farhan

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Msg no: 575535

LMMMFAO!!!!


02:45am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575536

look Sandman like I said before I believe that sex is all about experimentation and compromise. I would go down on my man, but he would do the same for me. I would let my man penetrate me from behind, but I would do the same to him. It's all about give and take. And not necessarily on the same night.


02:45am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575537

we do not cut and paste

we talk from experience


02:46am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575540

yes sandeep but i personally cannot stand the doggy style position. I refuse to get into it and I hate the way it makes me feel. It's so degrading.


02:49am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575544

interesting Sandman... as my fianl question: Is there anything you wish your man would do to you sexually?

for me personally when my ex and I were first dating, he was very dominant and would take me at will. But once we were married, I felt as though I was always initiating sex. I would long for him to come home, throw me up against the wall, pull up my dress, and penetrate me as though it was all he could think about all day.


02:50am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575545

well sandeep i have yet to meet a man who spends about 90 minutes teasing me with his hands and mouth before he penetrates me. every boyfriend i've ever had doesn't take the time to appreciate my body. so I usually end up tying them up and doing whatever I want. but the second I untie them, bang -- and I mean that literally.


02:50am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575547

HAHA NICE ONE SANDMAN !

I wish my fiancé would kiss my entire body from my head to my toes. I give him that encouraging moan whenever he starts kissing my body, but he just doesn't get it.


02:51am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

DRJATTI

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Msg no: 575549

LMMMMMMAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

GD YOU LOT SOUND SO MUCH LIKE WOMEN!!!!!



02:51am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575551

look sandeep sweetie, why don't you try telling him? (referring to Jennifer) Just as you have no clue what he wants, he equally has no idea what you're into. It sounds like you had a pretty easy time telling him that you couldn't stand the rear-entry position, so why is it so difficult to tell him what you actually like? You have to be able to talk about everything, especially sex.


02:52am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575552

I wish he would talk dirty to me and say really nasty things about what he wants to do to me. We did it once and it really turned me on. I think I'll take your advice (pointing at sandman) and discuss it tonight.


02:52am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

farhan

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Msg no: 575553

dis shit is funny as fuck man!!!
ROFLMAO!!


02:53am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575555

well ok sandeep and other, lets talk about something lese, how many times a week do you plan to have sex when you're married? And for those of you who are married, how often do you have sex on average?

my story is well, I've been married to my husband for 27 years now and we have sex about twice a week. I'm lucky because my husband is a very affectionate gentleman and we have such a strong connection and always encourage open communication.


02:54am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

DRJATTI

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Msg no: 575559

REMINDS ME OF SEX AND THE CITY!!



02:54am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575560

so your posing the questions now !?

*points @ sandman*

I think that although we have sex often now, it will die down once we're married. So I would say about once every two weeks.


02:55am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575562

oh my God, and then women wonder why their husbands commit adultery. doesn't he get a say in how often you have sex? (referring to sandeep) or better yet, does he know that you think this way? because believe me, he'll give the marriage a second thought.


02:56am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575565

It's just expected. He knows, all men do.


02:57am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575569

look sandeepa, it doesn't have to be that way. why is it that you're in the mood to make love all the time while you're dating, but once that ring is on your finger, suddenly enjoying great sex and satisfying your man sexually doesn't make the list of "things to do"?


02:58am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575571

I agree with SANDMAMA, once a couple gets married, sex slows down.


02:59am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575573

listen sandeepsha just like with anything in a relationship, you have to make time for lovemaking. you don't necessarily have to make appointments with each other, but just take the time to appreciate each other physically and mentally. if you do that, chances are your husbands will never stray.


02:59am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575574

You make it sound as though if a man cheats, it's his woman's fault !

LOL !!!

BITCH !


03:00am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575578

acha darling granted there are guys out there who are just rotten no?, but for the most part, many guys who commit adultery do so because there's something amiss in the relationship yaar.


03:01am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575582

Well, before my ex and I were married, we were making love at least four times a week -- and I'm talking quality lovemaking. But once we were married, he suddenly had no time for me. I thought things would continue the way they were beforehand. Ultimately, after a year of sexual deprivation, I ended up sleeping with someone else and told him. So I guess [Sandman's] point works both ways.


03:01am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575583

OKAY LADIES, thank you for your very interesting points. I wish you all luck in your relationship ventures.


03:05am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

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Msg no: 575589

what a crap and boring thread

*yawns*


03:06am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575592

@ spice


03:13am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

neo

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Msg no: 575600

   


03:56am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Jatt_Whiskey

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Msg no: 575628

LOOOOOOOOOOOL


04:18am, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Bharat

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Msg no: 575635

@


01:41pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575738

SHIT


01:42pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575743

man what did we do last nite :s


01:45pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575758

damn


01:46pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575761

i feel dirty inside :(


01:46pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575764

your telling me


01:47pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575767

how is your husband anyway?


01:47pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575768

lol, why u bump this for ?

ppl would have forgotten by now :D


01:48pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

[Profile - Diary]
Msg no: 575774



01:48pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575775

it almost near the top anyway !


01:49pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575776

shall i delete it?


01:50pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

ggrh2f

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Msg no: 575780

sandeep i swear man, this is beyond a joke/
u must have spent time on this last night


01:50pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575784

lol !!!!


01:51pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Harps

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Msg no: 575788

Did u guys get any from ur "husbands" last night *LOL*


01:51pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575789

lol, since ppl dont appreciate it.
delete it, well make a better more mainstream one later...

:p


01:53pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 575801

ok


01:53pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

[Profile - Diary]
Msg no: 575803

i swear there's something going on with these two


02:03pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

spazzz

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Msg no: 575825

LOL!!!!!


02:08pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

NuTty_tArt

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Msg no: 575839

SPAZZZ GET OUT OF THIS THREAD!!!!!
IWLL NOT HAVE U EXPOSED TO SUCH STORIES!!!

ITS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!! ULL THANK ME IN YEARS TO COME!!!!


02:12pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

spazzz

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Msg no: 575850

sis!!!

i got lost..n jus ended up here

*legs it*


02:13pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Gidhya_Di_Rani

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Msg no: 575852

.......... baby.....


02:13pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

musicalmasti

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Msg no: 575855

Sandeep & Sandman, MY HUSBAND???

DONT YOU MEAN MY "WIFE" ???



02:15pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

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Msg no: 575860

i think its disguisting that two grown men are behaving in this manner


02:16pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575863

who says were grown :p


02:19pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

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Msg no: 575872

true......u two act more ur shoe size than ur age


02:20pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Gidhya_Di_Rani

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Msg no: 575875

lol....... chek out this verbal abuse!


02:21pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

spazzz

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Msg no: 575876

what a bad influence...


02:21pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 575878

lool ... we got the rest of our lives to mature, why hurry things :D


02:22pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

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Msg no: 575881

we'll be waiting forever with u two :p


07:40pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

kingmaker

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Msg no: 576809

hmm


07:42pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

little_kuri

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Msg no: 576815



07:44pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Tannia_

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Msg no: 576831

awwwwww im outta here-BYE


07:45pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 576837

i thought i deleted this


07:45pm, 28th Apr 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sPiCe_kAuR

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Msg no: 576841



11:48pm, 3rd May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 599118

leh


11:49pm, 3rd May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Lickadicious

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Msg no: 599127

HEY WHO WAS THAT TUNE BY?...GOES LIKE 'AAAHH WANNA SEX U UP...LA LA LA 2NITEEE'...HAD A REAL HOT BEAT 2 IT!


11:51pm, 3rd May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 599136

loool ...


11:52pm, 3rd May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Lickadicious

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Msg no: 599143

SANDMAN, ORITE?! DO U KNW WHO THAT TUNE WAS BY MATE?


12:07am, 4th May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 599219

hey sandman


12:07am, 4th May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sammer

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Msg no: 599223

lets talk about sex baby
lets talk about you and me
lets talk about all the good things all the bad things etc etc


12:10am, 4th May 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandman

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Msg no: 599233

lol @ sammer ... ;)


01:45am, 5th Jul 2002   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 645234

woah....


forgot to delete this


06:40am, 1st Feb 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 686689

LMAO THIS THREAD IS TOO FUNNY


08:52am, 1st Feb 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Ghetto_Paki

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Msg no: 686696

HAHA... CLOWNS!!


11:11pm, 27th Mar 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

sandeep

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Msg no: 699917

oracle... i think i know what happenned to him


03:29pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

Harps

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Msg no: 753911

I miss Sandeep


04:18pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

pupsicle

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Msg no: 753916

what a waste of space thread, why hasnt this been deleted. From the tone of it I am suggesting most of what has been said came from a bunch of know nothing about sex virgins


05:11pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

paagal_guju

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Msg no: 753927

lmao!!

i remember this thread! lol


05:58pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

bally_v

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Msg no: 753935

ROFLMAO

CLASSIC THREAD


06:02pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

kingmaker

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Msg no: 753937

100


11:48pm, 24th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

DiamondGEEZA

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Msg no: 754034

i miss sandeep too


01:04am, 25th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

spazzz

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Msg no: 754037

sandddddddddddddddddddddy!!!!!!

come back...we loveeeeeee ju and miss ju and everything

BOTH OF THEM :O

i miss sandeeps jokes...and sandmans clever philosophical stuff :|


10:41am, 25th Nov 2003   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

GhEtTo_SwEeTnEsS

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Msg no: 754047

sex is very important


10:20pm, 4th May 2008   LETS TALK ABOUT SEX

pimp

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Msg no: 878247



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